It's all in a week..

You are like the first mug of hot water on a cold Monday morning..

You are like the ice cold water down my throat a hot Tuesday afternoon..

You are like the warm hug on a breezy Wednesday evening..

You are like the first droplets of water on a rainy Thursday night..

You are like the cool breeze on a starlit Friday night..

You are like my bean bag on a lazy Saturday afternoon...

You are like the warm rug on a shivering Sunday night........

Rationale can be argued according to you convenience. There is absolutely no hard and fast rule. Everything is subjective. It depends on which situation you are in, who you are dealing with, what you feel, how you want to approach the emotion. It's entirely personal. And noone can question that.

But.

But there is absolutely no point in doing anything which doesn't keep you happy at the end of it. If you have a seed of doubt or even a thought of unhappiness, then nothing is worth that thought. Nothing on this planet is worth you unhappiness. Is worth your tears.

Emotion..

Emotion is more intense when reciprocated.

Love...

Love, in it's purest form, is illogical.

Long distance..

I was in conversation with a collegue of mine and he asked me how I'm holding up to a long distance relationship. This line of thought lead to various other related topics.

The worst thing about an LDR is the distance. Obviously. What does a distance do to a human being? The distance brings distance between people. probably because there is communication gap, there is no time, there is work, there are different people to talk and mingle with etc etc.. basically you have your own world over there to handle.

one thing why humans have survived so many thousands of years and still growing strong is of the fact that we adapt ourselves to our environment. When the world around us changes, we quickly adjust ourselves, and keep moving.

When we are in a long distance relationship (whether it's your partner, mother, father, friend etc), we adapt ourselves to the absence of a person. we learn how to live life without them being around us physically. we learn how to laugh, cry, talk to people around us. I'm not saying that we forget them. but we adapt ourselves and our lives without that person. it's sort of a defence mechanism which we resort to.

there is a thin line between adapting ourselves and getting used to it. we should never "get used" to their absence. that's when a relationship falls apart.

We are the Fishtankers!

Somethings are impossible to forget. And that's what probably they call memories. They may not be something historic or big. It's just with the people who mean a lot to you, every small joy is amplified. Some of my best moments at the Fishtank and people connected with that..

1. Amblee - Manoj's dance and Abhay's "Santoshakke"
2. Dandeli - River rafting; Bhanu's "Roop tera mastana" and Abhay's red chaddis.
3. Chikmaglur - Me smashed; Drive with Daga and Geek; Ram's spontaneity at the river.
4. Take5 - Bhanu, Abhay and i.
5. Retro - Usha, Sudhi, Bhanu and i; one of the best drinks- never laughed like this in a long time.
6. Bhanu's house - Anu Sr., Abhay, Bhanu, Neeti and i - Conversation about us being professional.
7. Bhanu's Blue Gypsy story.
8. "Yif you come today, yit's too yerly"- Geek's best till date.
9. Parthi's orgasmic snake picture.
10. Masinagudi - Leopard jokes, throwball and conversations till 3 in the morning.
11. Jesika Dalal Meeting - "Premier Padmini"

you and me ..

Me :"I would die to see this smile of yours"

You :"If you die... who will i smile for?"